"I am my Beloved's, and He is mine.”  ~ Song of Solomon

graphics  at top of page by Jofia Devoe & heart collage by Nancy Rowe Janitz.

 


my little page about the wild, passionate love of God and how he pursues us...and some Valentine's stuff thrown in.

   
     
 
Romance ... I cannot think of romance without thinking of the greatest romance of all time... a Sacred Romance... the story of a prince who falls in love with a maiden and is sent by his Father to rescue her from the evil Lord of the land in which she lives and win her hand so he can bring her home to live with him.

The Webster definition implies heroic and larger than life actions and emotions. Romance is above all else an adventure. For me, when I think of romance, well.... hmmmm... at the heart of romance is patience, beauty, and caring about someone else’s well-being more than you care about your own.

so having a life filled with romance is not dependent upon a partner in your life, you can surround yourself with beauty, you can pour love into the lives of others and guaranteed it will be poured back into your life, you can set off in heroic quests of truth.

If you feel like you're living fast but not loving it, take heart! Your romantic has simply been misplaced. And I hope to make this page, a regularly updated  part of my blog... because romance is good in every life.

It is about a rush of the senses, then an intentional slowing down to focus in one aspect of the beauty coming at you... being able to see the beauty in the one rain drop poised to fall off the leaf yet hanging on.

 

   
 

Two or more threads came together to birth this holiday...

For eight hundred years prior to the establishment of Valentine's Day, the Romans had practiced a pagan celebration in mid-February commemorating young men's rite of passage to the god Lupercus. The celebration featured a lottery in which young men would draw the names of teenage girls from a box. The girl assigned to each young man in that manner would be his sexual companion during the remaining year. Now to be fair these lottery windfalls usually led to marriage.

Instead of the pagan god Lupercus, the Church looked for a suitable patron saint of love to take his place. They found an appropriate choice in Valentine, who, in AD 270 had been beheaded by Emperor Claudius.

Claudius had determined that married men made poor soldiers. So he banned marriage from his empire. But Valentine would secretly marry young men that came to him. When Claudius found out about Valentine, he first tried to convert him to paganism. But Valentine reversed the strategy, trying instead to convert Claudius. When he failed, he was stoned and beheaded.

During the days that Valentine was imprisoned, he fell in love with the blind daughter of his jailer. His love for her, and his great faith, managed to miraculously heal her from her blindness before his death. Before he was taken to his death, he signed a farewell message to her, "From your Valentine." The phrase has been used on his day ever since.

Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman 'lottery' system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February — Valentine's Day — should be a day for romance. Top of page

 

Send me some film ideas for me to review...
Last of the Mohicans: brave Nathaniel has captured the heart of the beautiful Cora. With tremendous courage and cunning, he rescues her from an ambush set by the black-hearted Magua, leader of a warring tribe. Nathaniel leads Cora, her sister, and a few other survivors to a hidden cave behind a waterfall. Just when it appears they will escape and live happily ever after, Magua and his savages discover their hideout. Once captured, the women may be spared but the men will surely be executed. With no powder for their rifles, Nathaniel’s only chance is to leap from the falls; by saving himself, he will live to rescue Cora another day. One of the other men calls him a coward, accusing him of foul and selfish motives. How is Cora feeling? What looks like abandonment may not be. Her only hope in the face of such wildness lies in the goodness of Nathaniel’s heart. At this point, it’s all she has to go on. It’s all we often have to go on too.

Forrest Gump: “The story of Lieutenant Dan is a poignant and revealing portrayal of God's fierce intentions to use both crippling and blessing to redeem us from our self-redemptive and purgatorial stories.”  Top of page

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Pioneer Woman suggests a fabulous meal: a juicy rib eye steak, garlic mashed potatoes, a chocolate mousse pie.





Martha Stewart offers up a not- too- sweet and stunning couers a la Creme.


and how about a simple chocolate fondue? well basically simple...
Melt 1 bag (large) chocolate chips and 1 1/2 heavy cream in glass measuring cup in microwave for 1 minute stir with fork until smooth and melted. . Repeat in new measuring cup with white chocolate chips. Put into two separate ramekin bowls... this looks so sleek in the Corning Wear French White. Add some skewers and an assortment of dippers...dried fruit, homemade marshmallows, poundcake, small brownie squares, fresh fruit...

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some romantic moments.....

When Will Ferrell gives Maggie Gyllenhaal the box filled with bags of "flours." in Stranger than Fiction.

When Jack Nicholson says to Helen Hunt... "you make me want to be a better man," in As Good as it Gets.

Shadowlands: the love story of C. S. Lewis and Joy Davidson Gresham by Brian Sibley..
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if you have suggestions for living romantically, books to read, films to watch, songs to listen to, romantic moments...then email us at   romance@20birds.net